up-side down thinking

     One main goal of my life is to have a peaceful, joyful home in which all the people belonging to it become their best selves (including me).  That means, in part, constantly turning conflict into something else with creative, up-side-down thinking.  Of course, that usually is applied to two little girls who want to hold the same doll.  So my creative responses have seemed to me sort of forgettable, and I have not written them down. Yet I realize they have value and can be applied across all areas of my life.