Monday, December 15, 2025

Leigh's College Application Essay

I cannot believe how awesome Leigh's college application essay is! She has granted me permission to post it here. Go, Leigh!


Leigh Rombs College Essay

I could go on for hours about the frequent national strikes in Italy, doctors who don't show up to their appointments, or the lack of public bathrooms. I could also talk endlessly about the stunning architecture, the sheer volume of art and basilicas, and the birds chirping every morning. If, however, I had to tell you about just one thing, I would have to recount how I went from struggling socially and academically while attending a school where I didn’t speak the language, to loving it so much that I chose to do it all over again, learning two more languages. What an extraordinary high school experience: the absurd beauty of learning a fourth language in a foreign country. 

At the age of twelve, I moved to Rome with my family. On the first day of seventh grade at an Italian school, I could confidently say “Ciao.” I had the rest of the Italian language to master, while adjusting to the completely new environment, on top of facing the already difficult aspects of middle school. Between teachers that taught by yelling at students, spontaneous oral quizzes, and a completely subjective grading system (let's just hope Signora Bellini is not having an extra surge of Italian emotion this morning), I was utterly overwhelmed. To make matters worse, I discovered that many kids were being either mean or vulgar, and I was unsure how to react. I had to learn when to fight for something and when to let it go, and furthermore how to stand up for myself in my second language.

I was determined to use this opportunity to become stronger. I pushed myself academically, spiritually and socially. At the end of eighth grade, after taking the Italian state exam required for promotion to high school and scoring almost perfectly, outperforming most of my peers, I had a moment of epiphany: I had discovered the joy of learning. 

Acknowledging the extent of this accomplishment, I dared to ask my parents if I could do it again, but now with German. In my 13-year-old judgment, reading the great philosophers and theologians that my parents often talked about in the original sounded impressive but doable. Incredulously and reticently, they helped me search for high schools that serve German-speaking populations in Rome. Against all odds, the Swiss School of Rome accepted my application. Almost a déjà-vu, I walked into the building on the first day of high school, confidently able to say “Guten Morgen.”  

Despite the inevitable hard work, I had the benefit of my epiphany behind me, reminding me of the joy and that it was my choice. I quickly made friends with daughters of Swiss guards and other international students. Academically, however, it was not so seamless. At the beginning, I sometimes actually wondered what class I was in (not joking), because one teacher would teach multiple subjects, and my German was so limited that I could not even identify the topic. My memorisation skills from Italian proved invaluable in those first months, as I needed to give presentations on topics ranging from the human circulatory system to Maslow’s pyramid. My parents and I stared in disbelief at each report card–I was passing. Three and a half years later, I took the C2 German exam, and incredibly, I passed the speaking module.

Meanwhile, French was part of the curriculum. My classmates were already at an intermediate level, and so I was expected to study on my own at home. Through diligent work I was later able to pass the B1 French exam.

Between studying the poetry of Goethe and the philosophy of Schopenhauer, my epiphany has not waned. As I travel Europe with my friends, sitting in coach on a TrenItalia train, we change our phones to Portuguese or Polish and see how long we can manage. I look at my life and see that it is absurd. And beautiful.


Sunday, December 14, 2025

In the eve of life, we will be judged on love

 A quote that radically changed my life is by St. John of the Cross, whose feast day we celebrate today: 

"In the eve of life, we will be judged on love."

When we really believe this message, everything changes! You give up all sorts of external goals and start spending time with the people whom you love and those who want to be loved by you. We might stop and think: Who desires my love? Who is craving being loved by me? Children crave their parent's love. Siblings crave the love and approval of their siblings. Aunts and uncles, cousins, close friends, grandchildren. . . the deep craving for love is essential to the human condition. What if we really gave our best selves, the first fruits of our energy and attention, to these relationships? 

Imagine a world in which everyone stropped pursuing dreams about fame, fortune, achievements, reputation, etc., and prioritized as their absolute, number-one, essential, non-negotiable goal, that they love well and with the highest quality those closest to them, those whom their birthed, those whom they will bury, those whom they marry, those whom they accompany through life. What a different world it would be, a civilization of love. 

This is what I believe, and why I started Mighty Is Her Call. It is a ministry seeking to elevate mothers by helping the world reimagine motherhood as a sacred and worthy life calling. Motherhood is not just a social or biological role. It is a spiritual one. It affords the chance to do the highest, loftiest, most important thing a human being can do: make yourself a gift to others. Be a living, breathing gift to your children and those closest to you. That is neither old-fashioned nor mundane. That is Christlike. That is divine.  

Today, may we renew our commitment to those closest to us, to our immediate families, to our closest companions. May we pray for mended hearts, healed relationships, joyful communion. Holy Spirit, move in us! Holy Spirit, come! 

Sunday, December 7, 2025

Pilgrimage to Rome

 Please join me for a pilgrimage to Italy June 20-29, 2026! We will be in Rome plus two nearby cities--Assisi (home of Saints Francis and Clare and Carlo Acutis) and Cascia (home of St. Rita)! Mighty Is Her Call has organized a marvelous trip, in which we will see all the main sites (the Vatican, the Colosseum, and so forth) with a special emphasis on the laity, women and mothers who contributed to the building of Christian Rome (spiritually and physically). The trip is for women, men, children, grandparents--all are welcome. Fr. Joshua Whitfield will be joining us offering daily Mass and chaplain support.  Please see our brochure. Space is limited and it is filling up! https://mightyishercall.com/pilgrimage/

Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Pig Roast

We've had the wildest time on the Rome campus in the past week! Ron threw a blow-out party for Thanksgiving, roasting 2 whole pigs and brewing 4 kegs of beer himself. Some students and Student Life guys helped with gutting the pigs, and tending to the outdoor fire on a homemade fire pit over a 24-hour period. Ron had dozens of guests plus the whole program--almost 200 people in all. This guy can throw a commercial-grade party! 

What was I doing? Talking about the Trinity!!! 

Annie and Nilo

4 kegs

Stout

Football 

Open fire

Isn't Ron handsome?

1st pork-tasting after an all-nighter by the fire

IT'S SO UD!!!!!!! Personalism by the fire

200 lbs of pork


Trinity conversation on the mensa terrace--Marcus was blown away by St. Thomas's trinitarian theology and Brendan offered a nice contribution

Powderpuff football game

Go girls! 


Monday, December 1, 2025

Reconciliation

 On a trip to Turkey to commemorate the 1,700th anniversary of the Council of Nicaea, Pope Leo XIV said: 

We must draw from this shared apostolic faith in order to recover the unity that existed in the early centuries between the Church of Rome and the ancient Oriental Churches. We must also take inspiration from the experience of the early Church in order to restore full communion, a communion which does not imply absorption or domination, but rather an exchange of the gifts received by our Churches from the Holy Spirit for the glory of God the Father and the edification of the body of Christ.

Leo's resolve to work diligently, deliberately and fervently toward reunification and reconciliation of the Christian Churches is captivating my heart. I am so hopeful that new steps will be taken and that his ambitions goals will be achieved. He wants the oriental and Roman Churches to celebrate the same date of Easter. He wants total accord between them. 

I concur with his sentiment that communion does not involve either "absorption" or "domination," but rather "an exchange of gifts." This is how I see communion among any groups of persons. If there is absorption, it inhibits communion. If there is domination, it inhibits communion. Rather, when we have genuine communion, we receive the "otherness" of the other persons and enjoy the gift that they are and that they have to share. God gives us gifts, and God makes us gifts. 

May we, too, make ourselves gifts to others, and may we not settle for anything less than divine communion in our lives.  


Monday, October 27, 2025

Car Talk

Most school mornings, Annie, Leigh and I hop into the car at 6:40 am with a cup of coffee and our morning prayer app. We say morning prayer as I zip down the Appia, dodging rogue Roman drivers and motorcyclists whose standards of normalcy on the road defy the American imagination. 

After we comment a bit on the prayers and readings of the day, we turn to small talk. What do Leigh and Annie have to say? It boggles the mind. For example, Leigh says: 

"I like our new math teacher, Mrs. Giamaria. But her German is really hard on the ears. She lived in Switzerland for 10 years and just learned it incorrectly." 

Annie interrupts from the backseat with an example of that teacher's bad German: 

"Ab-LEIT-ung!" she says mockingly. 

Leigh laughs so hard. They both repeat "Ab-LEIT-ung" several times. I ask what's the problem. They say, "It's supposed to be AB-leitung. But she stresses the second syllable. And boy, does she stress it!" They pretend to be her, saying "Ab-LEIT-ung" with exaggerated expression. 

I ask them, "What does it mean?" They tell me it means "derivative." So, they are learning their math derivatives with this twist of the teacher's interesting pronunciation. 

Annie then declares that Mrs. Giamaria says "funf" instead of "fünf," forgetting the umlaut. She continues, "Even the boys in the class imitate her saying 'funf!"

Leigh chimes in, "She also says, 'Naricht' instead of 'Nachricht,'" and Annie performs that one too with special intonation. 

Once they settle down, I say to them: "You do hear yourselves, don't you? Can you believe that you know German well enough to be upset by her pronunciation? When you got to this school on the first day, just a few years ago, you could hardly formulate a complete, correct German sentence." 

I also reminded them, "Be careful in imitating her. . . how do you think people talk about your German!?" 


Wednesday, October 15, 2025

Let Nothing Disturb You

 Let nothing disturb you, nothing frighten you.  

All things are changing. God never changes.

Patience obtains all things. 

Whoever has God lacks nothing.

God alone suffices.


             --St. Theresa of Avila

Monday, September 8, 2025

Davila Extravaganza!

The Davilas threw a magnificent rehearsal dinner with a cocktail party to follow. I love their concept of the cocktail party where family who have not seen each other for a long time could reconnect, so that the wedding did not double as a family reunion. Brilliant!









Saturday, September 6, 2025

Hiking in the Alps

 







What a lucky boy! Having a week alone with his dad and his dog in the Italian Alps. It doesn't get much better than that!







Thursday, September 4, 2025

Madame Butterfly

When we moved to Italy in 2019, Annie was 9 years old. We met up with Aunt Swanee and some of her family in Florence for a few days. She took the group to a live performance of Puccini's opera, Mme. Butterfly. It was Annie's first opera. She was following along. She started bawling at the tragic ending. Aunt Swanee was touched by Annie's heart and how deeply she feels, and how intensely she experienced the opera--a bit unusual for a young girl. 

To my great amazement, this year, Annie's choir director collaborated with an opera director from Palermo, Sicily, and the choir was invited to audition for the opera they would put on--Mme. Butterfly! To my greater amazement, Annie had to learn the whole chorus part from the entire score just to audition. She did so and nailed the audition. She was a superstar on stage, at 15 years old, performing the opera she had seen 6 years prior.  I had to pinch myself. What an honor and glorious experience for all of us!






In the many hours I sat in rehearsals, I particularly loved hearing the cellist as he worked up his part. Oh, nothing is more beautiful than the cello!
 

Paw Paw Ronnie cuttin' a rug


 

Dancing Before the Dancing

 



Aunt Swanee was hands down the best and most appreciated dancer at both the rehearsal dinner cocktail party and at the reception. I got so many comments about how awesome she is on the dance floor! 

Clare always knows how to get the party started. . . which is essentially what she was doing here, dancing with Sebo! Gosh, how I love Clare!



Mrs. Mary Davila!

 Words cannot express what joy I experienced at Mary and Nando's wedding and reception. Mary and I had worked so diligently planning for it, which in itself was a wonderful process. She is such a humble, thoughtful, responsible person and we work so well together. The day itself was one of the high points of my life! Can you believe it, she is MARRIED! Mrs. Mary Davila!!!!

Two high points were Ron's INCREDIBLE speech, including the safe story and quotes of Ratzinger, and Mary presenting me her bouquet, making a speech that mothers should get more recognition at weddings for all they do raising their children. So many people commented to me about both moments. Memories that will last a lifetime!









Thursday, July 10, 2025

Mary Lou in Rome

 After visiting Mary in Dallas, she came to visit us in Rome! She had some wedding dress fittings. . . ah, what a dream! 










Mary Lou

 How we cheered as Ron hooded Mary on the stage. . . how often does a dad get to hood his own daughter?! Mary, you are a super star!