Sunday, June 21, 2026

Annie is Sweet 16 and Headed for the UK


 

Annie is finishing her second year of high school with a bang. She had a blowout "mocktail" party with the girls from her class. It was a riot! Such fun. 

Now, in an incredible turn of events, she has decided to finish at the Swiss School of Rome where she has attended for 4 years. Fluent in Italian and German, and proficient in French and Latin, she has decided to pursue preparation for university in England. She has just been accepted into an online British school who objective is to train students up to take the A Levels which are required for entrance into universities in the UK. 

Gooooooooooooo, Annie!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, June 20, 2026

Venice and Theology

The University of Dallas' Rome Program recently went to Venice. The kids and I were able to join. The University of Dallas invited Fr. Thomas Joseph White, O.P., rector of the Angelicum, as its honored guest. He gave a theological reflection on Tintoretto's masterpiece in the Scuola San Rocco depicting Calvary. See video below. 

Spans a huge wall--an incredible masterpiece of baroque art

Detail of Mary standing at the foot of the cross


Look at this rough image of Mary at the Annunciation, in another room in the Scuola San Rocco. Not exactly Titian's Assumption in the Frari Basilica in Venice (below).

Titian's famous Frari Assumption in Venice

Sebo entertaining Spring Romers

I can't get enough of this beautiful city in the course of the day's changing lighting 

Back to the Scuola San Rocco

Fr. Thomas Joseph speaking to the students and faculty

Thank you for joining us, Fr. Thomas Joseph!


Here is a video of Fr. Thomas Joseph White, O.P. speaking on Tintoretto's crucifixion in the Scuola San Rocco. High Christology and fascinating mariology. 


 

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Leigh graduated from High School!

 






She actually made it. It seemed impossible. Wanting to learn German in addition to Italian while on our "short jaunt" to Italy, middle-schooler Leigh asked to transfer to a German-speaking high school so she could eventually "read Ratzinger in the original." 

We found the Swiss School of Rome, and weirdly and wildly, she was admitted. 
She arrived knowing how to say "Guten morgen." 

Spending 5 years with about 20 Italian teenagers whose families had some reason or another for them to be fluent in German (a Swiss or German parent; dad is a Swiss guard, etc.), Leigh was the only American and the only one there "for fun" and "to read Ratzinger." 

All the lessons were in German (physics, chemistry, biology, math, history, German language and literature, economics and law, etc.), except Italian literature (in Italian), French (in French) and English literature (in English). She passed the C2 German exam, an international language test, C2 being the highest. She out-performed many of her classmates, even those who speak German at home or who had been enrolled in the SSR since kindergarten) both in the C2 and in her courses in general. 

Leigh Kelly Anne, I do not know how you did it. Your stamina, your worth ethic, your discipline, your sheer force of the will, your passion, your love, your resolution, your goodness, your kindness, your faith and love for God--may you blessed always with these extraordinary gifts. 

After the last day of school, all the girls in your class came to our campus to celebrate. You had sought "class unity" your whole 5 years, and you finally got it in one evening. You hosted a sleepover and wore your t-shirt that says "Jesus" across the front. You are a missionary. a minister, and a shining light. 

After graduation, Leigh BOLTED! She was off to Spain to celebrate with friends; then she'll be off to Greece, then back to Rome, then to the U.S., then to Rome for 4 days, then to Calcutta!








Aunt Swanee and Good Friday

Having just had hip surgery, I simply cannot believe that she and David made the trip all the way from D.C. to Italy! The MAIN FOCUS for me was to experience Good Friday together. Aunt Swanee and Dave arrived a couple days before Good Friday and we had a very solemn celebration throughout the day and evening, culminating in the liturgy. 

Aunt Swanee describes herself as a "Good Friday Christian" and, as a talented musician, composed a profound orchestral piece called the Witness Cantata that is a musical reflection on Good Friday. She examines the 7 Last Words of Christ and experiments with moving musical expression on the Passion of Christ. We experienced a private performance of it here in Rome (with the recording--one day I hope to arrange a live performance here).  William Blake, Elie Wiesel, A. Akhmatova, T. Roethke, and others are featured in a powerful look at the Holocaust, human degradation, and how and whether God is in its midst. 

Our family had a time of questions and answers with her, reflecting and sharing our experience of having listened to it. I wept and expressed my experience, which is that it reflects a high Christology. If the man who died on Calvary is not God, then it is not worth recounting with such emphasis and attention (unless each person's death warrants such a reflection, and in a certain sense that is true too). 

Furthermore, there is a poignant line taken from E. Wiesel in which people in a concentration camp watch a boy being hung to death. The vocals go like this: 

"Behind me, I heard the same man asking, 'Where is God now?' And I heard a voice within me answer him: 'Here he is--handing here on this gallows."

In my view, it would be meaningless to see God in a boy hanging in the gallows if Christ did not enter into our death. The cross is how God entered into human death. God is Life, Eternal Life. By definition God is immortal-all religions agree. Only by a radical act of mercy and loving choice would Life Itself enter into death. And that, in my view, is precisely what the cross is. All human beings are touched by this possibility only if God did assume death--which is almost incomprehensible but is the living touchstone of Christian faith. If God appropriated death, then death will forever be changed. Some would call it "redemption"--but why use technical terms? Let's just call it "transformation," such that God takes it up and makes it something different, something better than it was, something of value (hence the word "redemption" if we want a glimpse into that term after all)--even a way to encounter God. If God is hanging on the gallows, then, to my mind, God must have entered death in some remarkable fashion. Elie Wiesel was, in my opinion, making a faint but real expression of faith, and a Christian would unpack it by saying that Christ's death on Good Friday is an indication that Christ was God. 

Did Aunt Swanee and I discuss this theme? Boy, did we. We averaged 4 hours a day in deep conversation about God, the cross, Good Friday and practically everything that stems from this sacred theme. Aunt Swanee is a capable philosopher, theologian, artist, musician, humanitarian and ethicist. What a delight to see all that come out in one visit. 




Friday, May 22, 2026

I marvel at the joy of my life

 How blessed I am--God, thank you for the riches of the inheritance you have given me--my family!







Thank you, Lord, for each one here whom I love with my whole heart. Great news: we have another little one on the way! Gabrielle is expecting a baby in November! 


Thursday, February 5, 2026

Sebastian on Silent Retreat at Monastery

 "Mom, could you take me to a monastery so I could go on a silent retreat?" 

Not a question you hear every day. 

Answer: "Sure! Of course!"


They had him serve at the altar


Be a lector


Sing in the choir!
(I know, it's like "Where's Waldo?" He is everywhere if you just look carefully enough)


Read in the cloister


We had a little chance to have hot chocolate at the local bar


And try their lasagna, of course (which was incredible)


Chapel of St. Thomas Aquinas (where he died)
St. Thomas asked to have the Song of Solomon read to him just before he died. That is beyond amazing. We love you, Thomas. You are our inspiration. 


NEW portrait of St. Thomas in the private library (thank you, Sisters, for letting us in!)


We love Fossanova!


Only 1.5 hours away. What a blessing!

Thursday, January 22, 2026

Pilgrimage is full!

Amazing news--the registration filled up! Then we added a few extra spaces, and they filled up as well! I simply cannot believe the amazing opportunity that this is for me. I have designed what is, as far as I know, the first-ever pilgrimage to Rome whose focus is the laity--and the mothers in particular--who built Christian Rome. With the help of both Fr. Josh Whitfield and Vocatio Travel, I will guide this spectacular pilgrimage with 47 participants. I thank God for this rich blessing!